A lot of people are confused about gay bondage. They think gay bondage sex is perverted, weird or satanic. Well, the truth is that bondage sex can actually be really fun. Sometimes, it can be nice to get tied down, blindfolded and fucked into submission. The whole idea surrounding gay bondage is submission, domination and release – it is like playing an erotic game, which makes it a really fun way to spice things up in the bedroom. If you have been with your man for a long time and things are getting a little boring in the bedroom, you may want to try out a little bondage sex.
Here are some things you need to know about gay bondage sex…
First, you want to find out if you are more dominant or submissive. This will help you discover your roles. If you are more submissive, you are going to have fun and you won’t really get turned on in a dominant role. The same goes, if you are a more dominant person. So, find out where you stand and what your role is. You can talk with your partner about it or you can start playing around in the bedroom to find out where you fit in.
To start playing around in the bedroom, you are going to need some hot tools. Gay bondage sex is all about having some instruments of erotic pleasure on hand. For instance, you’ll need a whip and you’ll need a blindfold. Those are the two essentials. You can even go for the Sex and Mischief Restraint Kit, which comes with two ankle and wrist cuffs, a collar, a leash and a blindfold. Once you have some tools on hand, you can start experimenting. Through this experimentation, you will find out if you like to dominate or if you like to be the one tied to the bed, blindfolded and whipped.
Next, you need to have a safe word. In fact, safety is critical for any sexual scenario, but when it comes to gay bondage, you want to be extra careful. You don’t want anyone to feel like they are trapped. You also don’t want anyone to feel like they doing anything against their will. So, be sure to have a safe word – it can be anything. Your safe word will be like a key. Once you say the safe word, your partner will unhook you and you’ll be able to take a break. When you first practice with bondage sex, you may get a little claustrophobic or anxious – and that is perfectly fine.
As the dominant one, you need to know how important your role is in a gay bondage scenario. If you have someone tied to the bed, cuffed and blindfolded, you have a lot of power, so you want to be respectful and not abuse that power. Basically, you have the power to unhook someone when that person says the agreed upon safe word, so you don’t want to wait or mess around. Basically, the submissive one really has no power in certain situations, so it is up to you to make that person to feel safe. When it comes to gay bondage sex, trust is incredibly important.
Also, if you want to take the whole gay bondage sex thing up a few notches, you may want to practice with some true bondage gear. For instance, you can play around with a leather mask for some extreme bondage fun. You could also go for the Shock Therapy Electro Sex kit, which offers little electrical pulses to really tease and titillate. You can also try the Colt Stallion Tail Butt Plug, which is a butt plug that comes equipped with a long horses tail, so you can really play around in the bedroom – nothing wrong with a little role-playing.
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Lastly, gay bondage sex can be a really fun way to make your bedroom fantasies really come to life. It is also a great way to spice up your bedroom activities with your partner. When it comes down to it, bondage sex doesn’t need to be as extreme as popular culture makes it out to be. You can very easily start slow and then work your way up to the more extreme stuff. In the end, as long you have a safe word, you’ll have an incredibly fun time. Where’s the fun in sex if you can’t get a little dangerous sometimes?
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