How To Talk Dirty To Your Boyfriend

It can be one of the hottest things when a guy whispers sweet dirty nothings in your ear. Something about his man scruff and his hot breath blowing in your ear. Dirty talk can be hot while he is giving it to you from behind and it can even be hot via text message – gay sexts are the best, especially when you are at work and you don’t suspect them. There is a reason why dirty talk is on the list of things you must do during foreplay and even during sex to spice things up. In my world dirty talk isn’t just a must, it’s a requirement – sex can be incredibly boring without it.

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Here are some ways to talk dirty to your boyfriend…

  • During foreplay. Besides all the erotic toys you can use and all the sucking it is important to engage in some dirty talk. In fact, even before the foreplay you should start off telling each other how badly you want it. The best part is that it’s dirty talk, so you can go into as much detail as you want. You could tell him your wildest and dirtiest fantasies, because you can get away with anything when it comes to dirty talk. It is recommended to keep the dirty talk going with each and every button that you remove on his shirt and even up to the point where you unzip his pants. Just take control of the situation and tell him how bad you want to fuck him.
  • If you are one of the many people that finds dirty talk easy to think about, but hard to actually say, it is important to realize that you are not alone. A lot of people find it hard to get into detailed dirty talk, especially when it gets especially explicit. It is understandable, because most of this vernacular isn’t really even in your regular vernacular. You might feel embarrassed or too nervous to say anything too vulgar. However, practice always makes perfect. Just as an exercise – not during or before sex – just scream out all the dirty things on your mind.
  • Sexting is another great way to practice dirty talk. Sexting is a really great way to say anything on your mind, because you aren’t really saying it, but writing it down. Yet, sexting can very easily turn into actually being able to say some of the dirty things that you have on your mind in the actual bedroom. Sexting is also much safer, because you aren’t worried about his reaction. Most guys say that they don’t want to say anything dirty because they are afraid that the other person is going to make a judgmental face. With sexting, there is no such face to be worried about.
  • Don’t make it gross. You don’t need to make dirty talk really gross. Dirty means sexy – so it is really sexy talk that you should be focusing on. If you say anything too dirty you could risk the other person being turned off instead of turned on. The whole point to dirty talk is to turn the other person on. So say things that pertain to sex – keep it out of the bathroom and keep it out of the gutter. Unless your boyfriend or the guy you are hooking up with, likes that sort of vile humorous dirty talk, then by all means go for it.
  • Be specific. If you are sucking his balls, tell him you are going to suck his balls dry before you get there. Dirty talk can be a great way to tease and titillate without even using your mouth or hands. Before you start to deep throat him, tell him you are going to choke on his dick and then put his cock in your ass. The more detailed you get, the better. It could even be as simple as kissing his whole body and telling him which body parts of his you like tasting the most.

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At the end of the day, dirty talk can make your sex life that much better. It can open up a whole world of erotic possibilities. If you are too shy, remember to practice first and shout out all the dirty things on your mind, or you can do so in the mirror. Before you practice dirty talk, it is important to get as comfortable as you possibly can. Once you do, it’s smooth sailing from there on out.

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